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I’m Corey, this is my wife Pam.

Here to help couples spend their days fully alive.

We believe couples can be in control of their relationships, not the other way around. We can all remove the “ceiling” of our relationships. Let’s reach our potential, and then surpass it!

I empower people. Encourage them.
I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.

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We really love making this podcast together. It’s straight-forward, it’s honest, it’s smart and it’s real. Let’s talk about what actually happens in our bedrooms, right?

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With featured guests like

Ian Kerner

Author, Sex Therapist

Jennifer Findlayson Fife

Marriage and Family Therapist

Dr. Robert Glover

Author, speaker

Emily Nagoski


Lori Brotto

Canadian psychologist, Sex Therapist

Laurie Mintz

Sexuality psychologist

Vanessa Marin

Psychotherapist, Writer

Gary Thomas

Author, Speaker

Stephen Snyder

Author, MD

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Join us with My 3 Words in 2024

Join us with My 3 Words in 2024

2024 is fast approaching - which often means people all over the world may make new year's resolutions. If you're like me (and most everyone else), they don't work very well for daily/weekly execution. What I’ve found much more helpful is a practice called “My 3...

Sneak Peek of The Healthy Marriages Course

Sneak Peek of The Healthy Marriages Course

Being part of the SMR Academy has some great perks: Access to the XTD content of SMR Episodes. A supportive community of fellow married couples. And now, the first Simple Marriage Course: Healthy Marriages Course.  Here's a peak at Lesson One If you are not a member,...

A Long and Changing Road

A Long and Changing Road

Marriage is a journey, and as the years unfold, couples often find themselves navigating new territories within their relationship. Today, let's explore the ideas also covered in this week's episode of Sexy Marriage Radio. Long-term marriages are a tapestry woven with...

Navigating Sex In The Brain

Navigating Sex In The Brain

In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, maintaining a vibrant and fulfilling sexual connection in a long-term marriage can be a challenging endeavor. The intricacies of intimacy evolve over time, influenced by various factors such as personal growth, societal...

Right or Learning

Right or Learning

In life we are faced with countless decisions to make each and every day. Some work out well, some flounder along and some seem to fail. I don't like to look at decisions as either it was right or wrong. Instead - it was right or I'm learning something. For over the...

Does Your Marriage Lack Passion?

Does Your Marriage Lack Passion?

The alarm goes off, you get ready for the day. Get the rest of the house up, kids out the door to school, head off to work. Get your job done. Battle traffic. Eat dinner. Go to the kids practice. Get them in bed. Watch a little TV or surf the socials. Go to sleep....

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