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Our podcast and community of 500+ married people offers a path to a better relationship that’s realistic, and attainable. Increase your marriage and relationship skills. Make better decisions at every step thanks to peer support and expert feedback.

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Hosted by Dr Corey and Pam Allan

Sexy Marriage Radio

Join us as we dive into the world of married sex. Weekly, honest conversations about sex and marriage … and everything in between.

The best sex really does happen in the marriage bed (or couch, table, hottub, you get the idea).

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About Us

Hello! We’re Corey and Pam

He’s a PhD level marriage and family therapist and she’s a woman who speaks her mind. Together they’re the incredibly authentic, honest, smart, helpful, shockingly open, and seriously fun couple you want to grab a cup of coffee and hang with. They share the ups and downs of marriage along with their listeners,  while giving you conversation starters and actions you can take to ramp up your relationship.

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1k+ five-star reviews

Hundreds of Satisfied Listeners

Transformed self and Transformed marriage!

I am so grateful for having found, met, interacted, and come to enjoy all of the content from Dr. Corey Allan, Pam, and Sexy Marriage Radio (SMR). It’s not just a podcast, but a real community of like-minded people who are pursuing bigger and better things for their lives, marriages, and great sex (married sex is the BEST sex). I’m now an Academy member. My friends and their friends are now listeners. My wife and I and another couple attended the SMR Marriage Getaway ‘24 and loved it. This is more than just a knowledgeable guy pontificating for 25 min about soapbox topics. He really cares and has a passion for what he’s communicating. Keep up the great work Corey and Pam!

First time listener turned lifelong listener

I found Sexy Marriage Radio by chance a few weeks ago, and it really clicked for me. My husband and I are new empty nesters, and have been looking to both improve our marriage and spice it up. These podcasts do both! Can’t wait to listen to more!

Sex-Vangelist

Hey Corey and Pam, just wanted to thank you so much for the show and the resources that you share here. I’ve been listening for several years and I have realized that I am so very passionate about this topic and it’s one of my favorite things to talk about now with other women within the faith. What’s funny is in the middle of talking about it I’ll feel like maybe they think I’m being inappropriate but then in private those women will reach out to me looking for more resources. So just know that this is a very needed topic. Keep doing what you’re doing, keep sharing resources. I fully believe that Christian sex should be the best, most fun, most fulfilling sex. We have some work to do and I’m happy to be a part of sharing the good news!

10 out of 5

If I could leave 10 stars, I would. No spouse, no couple is perfect – but SMR frames the conversations in a way that not only helps you navigate that fact but also sets you on the path to celebrating that fact. Thank you, Dr. A and Pam for all that you do.

Real talk about marriage, sex, and love.

My husband started listening first and then got me listening. This podcast is amazing. You get to hear real life topics and scenarios that seem to occur in all relationships. Best part is not only is the host a husband and father but a real doctor and marriage therapist as well. While they are Christian, I’ve never felt they try to be preachy or make anyone feel bad for having different beliefs. The beginning had previous co-hosts but now his wife is his side kick and she brings a down to earth realistic woman’s point of view to the discussions. This is a joy to listen to each week individually and then discuss with my husband on date night or after we’ve both listened. Can’t begin to tell you how much I’ve learned from opening my mind to the topics discussed or how it opens conversation between us and even our friends when we share what we’ve heard. We continue to recommend this podcast and the annual marriage getaways. Thank you Dr. Corey and Pam!

Thoughtful conversations

Excellent content that inspires me to be smarter and sexier.

Not the average marriage podcast

Dr Corey Allan and his wife Pam take a deep dive into all of the issues related to marriage and intimacy- one complexity at a time. It’s fun and lighthearted while also sincere and genuine. Guests speakers are true experts in their field of study. This podcast is in my weekly rotation.

Definitely the best Christian marriage podcast out there!

I’ve been on a Christian marriage podcasts binge for the past half year or so, and have noticed that there is a lot of lax, not-very-biblically-sound advice being given on the air waves masquerading as “Christian” advice. This podcast is not one of those! I love how Dr. Corey comes from a professional perspective, has secular and Christian guests and sources, and doesn’t force his spiritual beliefs on the listener, while also letting the listener know his beliefs which are biblically based. “How you do life is how you do sex”

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