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I’m Corey, this is my wife Pam.

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We believe couples can be in control of their relationships, not the other way around. We can all remove the “ceiling” of our relationships. Let’s reach our potential, and then surpass it!

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I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.

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Recent Episodes

Yes, But … #664

Yes, But … #664

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More Destructive: His Porn Or Her Reaction? #663

More Destructive: His Porn Or Her Reaction? #663

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Get Past Your Past | Jason VanRuler #662

Get Past Your Past | Jason VanRuler #662

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Who’s Responsible For Whose Orgasm? #661

Who’s Responsible For Whose Orgasm? #661

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Trauma and Safety In Marriage

Trauma and Safety In Marriage

In this week's episode of Sexy Marriage Radio (Yes, But ... #664), we dive deeper into a crucial topic that affects many couples: the discovery of a spouse's pornography use and the ensuing fallout. A listener's email the episode prior sparked a discussion about the...

Navigating Past Your Past

Navigating Past Your Past

As a therapist for over two decades and a podcast host for half that time, I've witnessed firsthand the profound impact that our past experiences can have on our present relationships. In this week's episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, I had the pleasure of speaking with...

A Three-Way Marriage: A SMR Manifesto For Christian Lovers

A Three-Way Marriage: A SMR Manifesto For Christian Lovers

Last week I re-released my first manifesto, A SMR Manifesto. It contained a wealth of information regarding marriage and its design to help us grow into better people. It's the premise behind everything at SMR. But there is also a very important undercurrent running...

A SMR Manifesto

A SMR Manifesto

Dear fellow "I'm interested in experiencing all marriage has to offer" types .... If you're new here, or even if you've been around the Nation for over a decade now -- I present to you your own copy of A SMR Manifesto. ----> Click here to open or download the...

Busyness, Trauma and our Inner Ages

Busyness, Trauma and our Inner Ages

This week we're diving into some profound insights shared in a recent episode of Sexy Marriage Radio with John Eldridge (Busyness and Unhealed Trauma | John Eldredge #659). The conversation revolved around the evolving dynamics of relationships, the impact of...

Pressure In Sex And Marriage

Pressure In Sex And Marriage

This week let's dive into a recent podcast episode that addresses a challenging issue in marriage – the complexities and the aftermath of "mercy sex." In this week's episode of Sexy Marriage Radio (Mercy Sex In Marriage #658), we explored a listener's email detailing...

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