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I’m Corey, this is my wife Pam.

Here to help couples spend their days fully alive.

We believe couples can be in control of their relationships, not the other way around. We can all remove the “ceiling” of our relationships. Let’s reach our potential, and then surpass it!

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I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.

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We really love making this podcast together. It’s straight-forward, it’s honest, it’s smart and it’s real. Let’s talk about what actually happens in our bedrooms, right?

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Lori Brotto

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Laurie Mintz

Sexuality psychologist

Vanessa Marin

Psychotherapist, Writer

Gary Thomas

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Stephen Snyder

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Recent Episodes

Making Time For Each Other #697

Making Time For Each Other #697

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How Do I Initiate In A Sexless Marriage? #696

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Power Moves #695

Power Moves #695

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Is Sex a Need or Want? #694

Is Sex a Need or Want? #694

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The Path To Authentic

The Path To Authentic

I’ve been podcasting for nearly 13 years, and I’m still working on finding my true voice. Being genuine is one of the toughest challenges we face. Oddly enough, it’s often easier to be fake. We adopt roles, build facades, hide our true feelings, and mimic...

The Sacred Space Within Us All

The Sacred Space Within Us All

Every individual carries within them a sacred space, often referred to as the soul or the authentic self. This space is the core of who we are, a sanctuary that houses the essence of our being. It is here that four primary functions reside: thinking, feeling, sensing,...

2 Questions Every Man Must Ask Himself

2 Questions Every Man Must Ask Himself

There comes a time in a man’s life (usually this happens for me in the middle of the night or at the beginning of a new season in life) when he starts to ask himself the deeper questions about life, such as: Who am I? What am I doing with my life? These are just 2 big...

You need guys in your corner

You need guys in your corner

Enrollment for the Man Of His Word Mastermind groups is going on right now, new groups launch in the next couple of weeks. If you're interested in joining - reply to me and I'll let you know next steps. What follows is an unsolicited testimony from a member of a MoHW...

The Vicious Cycle of Unregulated Relationships

The Vicious Cycle of Unregulated Relationships

In the landscape of human connections, the ability to manage one’s emotional state is crucial, particularly in intimate relationships. When individuals fail to regulate their emotional responses, it can lead to what is known as an "unregulated relationship." Today...

How pushups can improve your marriage

How pushups can improve your marriage

So, if you start with five pushups a day for a couple of weeks, I bet you’ll be able to do six soon enough. Keep at it, and in a few more days, you’ll be hitting 10. Before you know it, you’ll be doing 15, 20, even 30 pushups in a few months. Your body’s gonna get...

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