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I’m Corey, this is my wife Pam.
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I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.
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I’ve been podcasting for nearly 13 years, and I’m still working on finding my true voice. Being genuine is one of the toughest challenges we face. Oddly enough, it’s often easier to be fake. We adopt roles, build facades, hide our true feelings, and mimic...
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Every individual carries within them a sacred space, often referred to as the soul or the authentic self. This space is the core of who we are, a sanctuary that houses the essence of our being. It is here that four primary functions reside: thinking, feeling, sensing,...
2 Questions Every Man Must Ask Himself
There comes a time in a man’s life (usually this happens for me in the middle of the night or at the beginning of a new season in life) when he starts to ask himself the deeper questions about life, such as: Who am I? What am I doing with my life? These are just 2 big...
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The Vicious Cycle of Unregulated Relationships
In the landscape of human connections, the ability to manage one’s emotional state is crucial, particularly in intimate relationships. When individuals fail to regulate their emotional responses, it can lead to what is known as an "unregulated relationship." Today...
How pushups can improve your marriage
So, if you start with five pushups a day for a couple of weeks, I bet you’ll be able to do six soon enough. Keep at it, and in a few more days, you’ll be hitting 10. Before you know it, you’ll be doing 15, 20, even 30 pushups in a few months. Your body’s gonna get...
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