Weekly touchpoints for meaningful conversations in marriage



A years worth of reminders and question prompts to discuss.


Only $27


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“The art of marriage is really the art of keeping up to date with your partner, of staying on track with your own and each other’s life goals as they emerge, exist, and change. It is about supporting each other and staying connected emotionally, intellectually, physically, and spiritually.”

~ Marcia N. Berger, LMFT


A great marriage doesn’t happen by accident.

Deeper connection with your spouse doesn’t happen by accident either.


Have you reached the point in your marriage where there’s the slow creep of disconnect or discontent? When was the last time you talked with your spouse about things other than schedules, work or kids?

Wouldn’t it be great if there was a way to be reminded on a weekly basis to touch base with your spouse? And that this reminder would walk you through the process of this connection?

The State Of Our Union will help you remember and discover what brought you together in the first place. It is a tremendous tool to help couples keep the important from being replaced by the immediate. Plus – this tool works via your own phone.


52 Reminders


Weekly text reminders with questions to discuss with your spouse

Deepen your conversation


Meaningful conversations about what really matters

Dream. Plan. Together


A great way to keep the important … important

The State Of Our Union helps you focus on the meaningful parts of your connection – not just the surface.


+ Share where you each are and what matters currently

+ Monthly questions to focus on your stewardship of money and your sex life

+ Discover the power of weekly touchpoint conversations to maintain a vibrant connection with your spouse

+ Quarterly conversations to discuss where you’ve been and where you are going


Only $27

By providing your phone number, you agree to receive text messages from Passionately Married. Message and data rates may apply. Cancel at any time.

Frequently Asked Questions

How does The State Of Our Union work?

After purchasing The State Of Our Union you will receive an email with a link that you will follow to a page to input you and your spouse’s phone numbers (where the texts will be sent to each week) – the day and time of the week you want the texts delivered – and your timezone. 

After that you will each receive a text at the appointed time you set – then it’s up to each of you to connect and discuss the questions in the text message. 

Does this work only in the US?

You should be able to receive the texts most anywhere in the world. If you discover that you are unable to receive text messages from a US based number, please let us know and we’ll see if we can figure out a different way for this to work for you. 

Are the questions the same each week?

There are 5 weekly questions most weeks. On a monthly basis there are 2 additional questions included in your text message. 

Then on a quarterly basis there are a set of different questions to discuss instead of the weekly/monthly questions.

How do we get the most out of this tool?

The text messages are intended to remind you to initiate and have the conversations with your spouse, as well as provide you the questions to answer with each other. 

To get the most out of this tool, plan on setting aside 5-10 minutes at a minimum each week to discuss your answers with each other. 

For the quarterly questions, which are deeper than the weekly/monthly questions, plan on dinner, an overnight or weekend away together and work through the questions in a less rushed environment if possible. 

How long will I receive these texts?

The State Of Our Union will send weekly texts for 52 weeks, then end. 

You can choose to renew the service for $14 and begin the process over again.