Start the New Year with Two Offerings For Your Marriage

Relationship Design

Happy New Year!

Today I’m going to tell you about how you can start the year off right on two levels —

For couples, come join us at the SMR Getaway June 13-15 2024.​
For men, join a Man of His Word Mastermind group that begins in a couple of weeks.

If you’re one who is feeling New Year energy — which I love because it’s a chance at a fresh focus and start — then the question is how do you leverage this energy for the best results?

One thing we offer can take advantage of this focus right away, the other gives you both something to look forward to.

If you’ve been around SMR any length of time then you’ve likely heard about both the MOHW Mastermind groups and the SMR Getaway.

MoHW Masterminds

As I say twice a year (every time we open up enrollment for MoHW Mastermind groups), we need a tribe of other men in our life. Having other men alongside you as you begin 2024 is one of the best ways in producing some incredible, and lasting, results.

For me, this is the best way I can combat my tendency to be “Lazy Busy.”

Lazy Busy is inspired by Tim Ferriss in the 4 Hour Workweek where he says (paraphrased):

“Being perpetually busy is the ultimate form of laziness. It’s merely indiscriminate action left unchecked over long periods of time.”

Being busy can give you the illusion of being productive. At least for a short period of time.

Eventually however, you wake up at the end of a year (say, 2023) and ask yourself the question “where did the time go and what did I do with it last year?”

Lazy Busy is a specific form of drifting, typically arising from:

  • An inability to find peace in periods of stillness
  • A fear that if you’re not constantly in motion then something bad will happen

A tribe around you helps you wrestle with these questions better.

But if the old saying holds true “you are the average of the 5 people you spend your most time with,” then what implications does that hold for your ability to become your best self in 2024?

  • To really lead your life well?
  • To set a consistent tone in your marriage and family?
  • To show up fully in all areas of your life?

You can find your tribe by joining a MoHW Mastermind group.

Groups are forming now and will launch in mid-January. If you are interested, take the next step and shoot me an email –

SMR Getaway

One of the highlights for Pam and I is the chance to getaway with other couples in the SMR Nation at the Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. This year’s Getaway happens June 13-15 in the DFW area.

Registration is open now, and if you’re at all like us, having things to look forward to is also a big part of the actual event itself.

The SMR Getaway is not your usual marriage retreat or conference, it’s actually a getaway for you and your spouse. What makes this one different?

Great, in depth information and processes you can implement right away in your marriage. Plus, all the focus is on you and your spouse – yes, other couples are there too, but all emphasis is aimed at just your marriage.

Plenty of relaxed time during the getaway. The first session each day begins at 10 am, so you actually get a morning to sleep, relax, do other things etc. And, sessions end by 5 pm so you have the evening to explore the DFW area, the area around the hotel, each other – you get the idea.

Finally, we wrap up the Getaway with a dance and social hangout on Saturday night. How often do you get to go dancing with your spouse? I can’t dance you may say. No worries, come hang out with lots of others who say the same thing. But, know this, everyone can slow dance. Simply hug your spouse and sway side to side – simple.

Special offer in January!

Want the chance to get the registration fee for the Getaway covered?

  1. Leave use review for the show on Apple Podcasts
  2. Send us an email with your ( username associated with the review

Will enter you into a drawing to win (a $675 value).

From now through the end of January, leave a review on Apple Podcasts, let us know your review, and possibly win your registration cost.

PLUS, if you don’t win the fee being waved, follow the same steps as above, register to join us at the Getaway and you’ll get $75 off your registration just for entering this contest. But what if you’ve already registered for the 2024 Getaway? Awesome, and you still have the chance to win, or save the $75. I’ll simply send you the refund for the amount.

Enter for your chance to win now – then make plans to join us June 13-15, 2024.

Learn more about the Getaway by clicking here.