Connection Matters Course

Join the Rekindle and Connect Course to understand how to rekindle the spark in your marriage as well as how to keep the fire going.


The course is hosted on the platform. By clicking the button below you will need to sign up for the free access to the platform – and then join the course.


Price- $209.99

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Session 1: What’s the disconnect?

Session 2: Mapping my role

Session 3: Marriage is a long game

Session 4: Sex is a language

Session 5: Foreplay for foreplay

Session 6: Gridlock and Two Choice Dilemmas

Session 7: Choosing goodness not the  dark side

Here’s a brief sneak peek …

The Connection Matters Course teaches you how to  addresses the common pitfalls that extinguish the sparks in marriage, and gives you the roadmap to discover deeper connections with your spouse.



The Connection Matters Course is perfect for those who:


  • Find they are more like roommates with their spouse than lovers.
  • Feel unsure how to even begin to connect again.
  • Want to grow their relationship to be more satisfying and connected.
  • Feel barriers in marriage without clarity about what is standing in the way.
  • Have reached gridlock on several issues in marriage and are ready to grow through it to the other side.

By joining this course and working through the materials, you will learn to see the dynamics in every marriage relationship more clearly, understand your role in your struggles, and learn how you can create a more passionate, authentic connection with your spouse.

This course will also help you understand the relational bases of connection. You will learn about the basics of our mind and body – and how these basics can be used to create a deeper, passionate, life-sustaining connection with your self and your spouse.

This course was filmed at the 2021 SMR Getaway. 

Frequently Asked Questions About Our Courses

How does this course work?
  • Course materials are all hosted within the platform. Joining the course will require joining the free platform to access the materials. 
  • In depth modules available the moment you join.
  • Material is in video format, with supplemental printouts available as well.
What if I have a question or need support during the course?

Every course purchase includes access to support from Dr Allan via email as well as live Q&A Calls every couple of months. These live calls give course participants an opportunity to ask Dr. Allan their questions anonymously while working through their course material.

How soon after I purchase will I get access to my course materials?

Once you purchase one or more courses, you will be have access immediately from within your Dashboard in the SMRNation Community. Any Digital Course Material needed for you course(s) will be also be available within the Dashboard. 

If I want to take a course with my spouse do I need to purchase the course twice?

Only one course purchase is required per household. You can share the course with anyone who lives with you.

Are these courses still helpful if I have to take it solo since my spouse isn’t interested?

The courses are tremendously beneficial taken solo or as a couple. Obviously, when both members of the marriage are involved, the course can be great for your relationship. But those who participate solo can still gain a great deal from this class.

The better you understand how healthy, passionate relationships work and what it takes to create them, as well as the other forces naturally at work in every marriage, the more effective you will be creating the relationship you want going forward.