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Divorce Is Not An Option, Or Is It? #628

Divorce Is Not An Option, Or Is It? #628

Pam and I use an email from a wife who is in a sexless marriage, going on 20 years now, and she wants to know if there is anything she can do, but divorce is not an option.

We answer her questions, then expand into some different topics that are at play in every marriage.

On the Xtended Version …

We do a deeper look at the dynamic of over-functioning and under-functioning.

Which one are you?

Enjoy the show!

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A Higher View | Dr Michael Sytsma #627

A Higher View | Dr Michael Sytsma #627

Dr Michael Sytsma joins me again as we dive into the idea of how there is something much deeper going on during sex. There is a higher view to take.

Learn more about Dr Sytsma here – https://intimatemarriage.org/bim-team/mike-sytsma/

On the Xtended Version …

I continue the conversation with Michael about Dr Schnarch’s idea of eyes-open-sex.

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Join Relay: Learn more about the pornography recovery group program Chandler created, the Relay app: bit.ly/passionately-married-relay

You Need A Tribe | Chandler and Jade Rogers #626

You Need A Tribe | Chandler and Jade Rogers #626

Chandler and Jade Rogers join the show today as they share their story of pornography struggle, its impact on their relationship and their journey towards healing.

Check out the app Chandler created to help others on this journey as well – Relay

On the Xtended Version …

Pam and I share our story and journey with the struggle and impact of pornography on our marriage and life.

Enjoy the show!

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Takeaways From 30 Years Of Marriage #625

Takeaways From 30 Years Of Marriage #625

This week Pam and I are looking back at what we’ve learned after 30 years of marriage.

Come look back with us.

On the Xtended Version …

A surprisingly high number of people will admit to snooping on their spouse’s phone or devices.

So what’s the motivation and results of this path?

Enjoy the show!

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Menopause and Hormones | Dr Kelly Casperson #624

Menopause and Hormones | Dr Kelly Casperson #624

This week Dr Kelly Casperson joins us again as we dive into the world of hormones and menopause. If you are a woman – you won’t want to miss this episode.

Learn more about Dr Kelly here – https://www.kellycaspersonmd.com/

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Unilateral Moves | Feedback Wednesday #623

Unilateral Moves | Feedback Wednesday #623

Today we answer emails from the Nation.

A husband and wife will usually incorporate the use of a vibrator during their sexual encounters together. But when the husband goes to retrieve the toy it often is in another place. His wife says she isn’t moving it. What’s going on?

A husband wants to use a toy for prostate play. They tried it once and now the wife is unwilling to try it again.

On the Extended Version …

A wife is bored in her sex life, even though her husband is very caring and attentive. To further complicate things, she doesn’t know what would liven up her sex life.

What can she do?

Enjoy the show!

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Lust Management | Jay Stringer #622

Lust Management | Jay Stringer #622

In this episode I’m joined by Jay Stringer, a licensed mental health counselor, and we talk about the importance of facing and addressing trauma and pain in order to heal and grow. Our tendency often is to numb or run away from pain – or attempt to manage it, but it is more important to be a witness to one’s own story while also having empathetic witnesses in the form of supportive friends and family.

Learn more about Jay here – https://jay-stringer.com/

On the Extended Version …

Jay and I continue the conversation and  highlight the importance of facing and processing trauma and pain in order to grow and heal, while also acknowledging the difficulty and complexity of doing so..

Enjoy the show!

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Lessons In The Sandwich Generation #621

Lessons In The Sandwich Generation #621

This week we are trying something different – this is a conversation from Pam and I while we were driving back from moving a parent into an independent living complex. 

What are we learning while we deal with issues surrounding aging parents – and teenagers?

Listen to find out. 

Enjoy the show!

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Brave Listening | Dr Stacey Freedenthal #620

Brave Listening | Dr Stacey Freedenthal #620

In this episode, I’m joined by Stacey Freedenthal, PhD, as we talk  about the taboo topic of suicide and the importance of brave listening.

Dr. Freedenthal shares her experiences as a suicide prevention expert and her insights on how to talk about suicide with loved ones.

We discuss the fear and discomfort that often surrounds this topic and how to overcome it through active listening, empathy, and curiosity.

This conversation is a must-listen for anyone who wants to better understand suicide and learn how to support those who may be struggling with suicidal thoughts or ideation.

Join us as we provide valuable insights and practical tips on how to engage in brave listening and help others feel seen and heard.

Learn more about Dr Stacey here –
https://staceyfreedenthal.com/
https://www.speakingofsuicide.com/

If you or someone you know is having suicidal thoughts, call 988.

On the Extended Version …

Stacey and I continue the conversation but look more deeply at the topic as clinicians, then how that fits with everyone else.

Enjoy the show!

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About your hosts

Corey and Pam Allan

He’s a PhD level marriage and family therapist and she’s a woman who speaks her mind. Together they’re the incredibly authentic, honest, smart, helpful, shockingly open, and seriously fun couple you want to grab a cup of coffee and hang with. They share the ups and downs of marriage along with their listeners,  while giving you conversation starters and actions you can take to ramp up your relationship.

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