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Trust Isn’t What We Think #637

Trust Isn’t What We Think #637

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On the Regular Version …

An email from a husband who had an affair 5 years ago – and he and his wife haven’t had sex since.

A question about how to talk about masturbation, wet dreams and pornography with adolescents.

On the Xtended Version …

Trust. We all believe it is vital to relationships. But what if it’s not what we think it is?

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Emotional Resolution | Cedric Bertelli #636

Emotional Resolution | Cedric Bertelli #636

Today I welcome Cedric Bertelli as we talk about his work with emotional resolution. We are all familiar with emotions, we all have them. But Cedric’s work focuses on the emotions that are triggered from things in our past, or fears, or worry.

How do you actually heal from them, or make them stop happening?

That’s what we discuss. Learn more about Cedric here https://www.cedricbertelli.com/

On the Xtended Version …

We keep the conversation about EmRes going – only turn it a little more personal.

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Intimacy Anorexia Or Is It Cruelty? #635

Intimacy Anorexia Or Is It Cruelty? #635

An email came in wanting our take on Dr Doug Weiss’ Intimacy Anorexia concept.

What exactly does this mean?

Are we each capable of this?

What do we do when see see this?

And, what if it’s actually better viewed as cruelty?

On the Xtended Version …

Author Kate Bowler has some helpful words regarding what to say and what not to say when faced with someone else’s grief or loss or struggle.

Words we all need to learn and use. Or stop using.

Enjoy the show!

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Men’s Sexual Wellness | Dean Pohlman #634

Men’s Sexual Wellness | Dean Pohlman #634

Today I welcome guest Dean Pohlman, the founder of Man Flow Yoga. Dean shares his unique journey into the world of yoga, which started accidentally with a fitness-focused class that turned out to be more challenging and beneficial than he expected.

We discuss how yoga is often overlooked by men who prefer intense workouts for building muscle, but Dean emphasizes that yoga’s slow, controlled movements, body awareness, and breathing also lead to functional strength and improved mobility. He highlights that yoga not only helps address weaknesses and build muscle differently from traditional weight training but also makes the body more efficient and less prone to joint strain during other workouts.

Learn more about Dean here – https://manflowyoga.com/

On the Xtended Version …

Dean and I switch gears a little and focus more on the sexual wellness aspect of men and how yoga can assist in our experiences in sex. You won’t want to miss this conversation.

Enjoy the show!

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What Drives You? | Ellen Chute #633

What Drives You? | Ellen Chute #633

I’m joined today by Ellen Chute, LMSW as we talk through her metaphor of looking at family dynamics and systems … where everyone sat in the car growing up.

Learn more about Ellen here – https://www.ellenychute.com/

On the Xtended Version …

Ellen and I keep the conversation going, only the tables are turned and she uses my childhood as a look into how her metaphor plays out. In other words, let’s get personal with my life. 

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Attraction and Desire | Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #632

Attraction and Desire | Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #632

A regular guest joins me again today, Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, and we dive into the relational dynamic of attraction and desire.

They happen to us, and we choose them.

They naturally ebb and flow.

And how do we get them back if they are lost?

Learn more about Jennifer here – https://www.finlayson-fife.com/

Enjoy the show!

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High Speed Porn | JK Emezi #631

High Speed Porn | JK Emezi #631

I’m joined today by JK Emezi, of Elevated Recovery and we have a frank conversation about high speed internet pornography.

Learn more about JK here – https://elevatedrecovery.org/

On the Xtended Version …

JK and I get personal and talk about our journeys as well as the concept of betrayal trauma.

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Over-Reaction To My Spouse’s Over-Reaction #630

Over-Reaction To My Spouse’s Over-Reaction #630

Pam and I get into a conversation about how we as married people can so often find ourselves over-reacting to our spouse’s over-reaction.

Why does this happen?

What can we do to stop it?

On the Xtended Version …

Author and modern-day monk, Jay Shetty has a 4 E formula for better relationships. We discuss what they are and if we agree with him.

Enjoy the show!

Sponsors …

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Triggers | Debra Fileta #629

Triggers | Debra Fileta #629

Counselor and author Debra Fileta joins me today as we talk about triggers, trauma and the state of the world.

Learn more about Debra and find her books here – https://debrafileta.com/

On the Xtended Version …

We continue the conversation and shift it towards what are some steps we can take to address triggers and traumas in our lives.

Enjoy the show!

Sponsors …

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About your hosts

Corey and Pam Allan

He’s a PhD level marriage and family therapist and she’s a woman who speaks her mind. Together they’re the incredibly authentic, honest, smart, helpful, shockingly open, and seriously fun couple you want to grab a cup of coffee and hang with. They share the ups and downs of marriage along with their listeners,  while giving you conversation starters and actions you can take to ramp up your relationship.

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