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Resentment Revisited #646

Resentment Revisited #646

Everyone gets both versions again …

Today we revisit a conversation from the archives. I’m joined by colleague Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and we talk about the marriages where everything seems to be great – except in one area. What’s happening here?

Plus, how do you address resentment in marriage and life?

Learn more about Dr Jennifer here – https://www.finlayson-fife.com/

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Conditionally Unconditional #645

Conditionally Unconditional #645

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Everyone gets both versions …

Is there such a thing as unconditional love and aspects in marriage or other relationships?

What if we all have conditions?

That’s what we explore this week.

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Fooling Yourself #644

Fooling Yourself #644

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In this week’s episode Pam and I answer a listener’s email about his trouble coming to terms with his spouse’s past, as well as some of their present.

On the Xtended Version …

Is it possible that our spouse knows us better than we know ourselves?

Yes – and we will go through all the ways we fool ourselves.

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Creating A Passionate Marriage #643

Creating A Passionate Marriage #643

We revisit our main framework of everything we talk about on Passionately Married.

What are our basic frameworks when addressing life and marriage?

How do we approach the idea of growing up in marriage?

In the regular version we cover Dr David Schnarch’s Four Points of Balance.

On the Xtended version …

We explore the principles of passion and desire and how they play out in marriage and life. These are natural dynamics found in every marriage.

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Revisiting Stress and Desire | Dr Lori Brotto #642

Revisiting Stress and Desire | Dr Lori Brotto #642

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On the Regular Version …

We go back in time to revisit an episode with Dr Lori Brotto.

We to discuss how stress impacts life and sex – specifically sexual desire.

Learn more about Dr Brotto on her website – www.debunkingdesire.com also find her on social media using this #debunkingdesire

On the Xtended Version …

Lori and I talk more in depth about her research and the myths surrounding sexual desire.

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Re-Storying Our Lives | Chris Bruno #641

Re-Storying Our Lives | Chris Bruno #641

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Chris Bruno joins me today as we dive into the world of re-storying, also could be termed restoring, our past and our lives.

What exactly does this idea mean?

Listen to find out.

Learn more about Chris and his work here – https://www.restorationproject.net/

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Marriage Warning Signs #640

Marriage Warning Signs #640

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On the Regular Version …

In this week’s episode Pam and I discuss warning signs of problems in marriage, and any relationships for that matter.

What are the various signs to watch out for in a relationship?

What if I see many of these in my marriage or life?

On the Xtended Version …

We answer the question of what to do if some of the warning signs are visible in y life or marriage.

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8 Steps Towards Great Sex #639

8 Steps Towards Great Sex #639

We revisit a past segment from the archives where we dive into the idea of what is permissible in marriage and sex?

This conversation is really less about one moral compass for all and more about the impacts of whatever it is you desire and seek in your marriage and sex life.

On the Xtended Version …

What are the steps towards creating a great sex life?

We share 8 of them.

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Doing The Best You Can | Nellie Harden #638

Doing The Best You Can | Nellie Harden #638

Nellie Harden joins me as we have a conversation about marriage and family life and how in the midst of this time, important things get missed or lost. 

Learn more about Nellie on her site – https://www.nellieharden.com/

On the Xtended Version …

I ask Nellie a question based on something mentioned in the regular version of the show … Do parents really do the best they can?

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About your hosts

Corey and Pam Allan

He’s a PhD level marriage and family therapist and she’s a woman who speaks her mind. Together they’re the incredibly authentic, honest, smart, helpful, shockingly open, and seriously fun couple you want to grab a cup of coffee and hang with. They share the ups and downs of marriage along with their listeners,  while giving you conversation starters and actions you can take to ramp up your relationship.

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