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I’m Corey, this is my wife Pam.

Here to help couples spend their days fully alive.

We believe couples can be in control of their relationships, not the other way around. We can all remove the “ceiling” of our relationships. Let’s reach our potential, and then surpass it!

I empower people. Encourage them.
I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.

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We really love making this podcast together. It’s straight-forward, it’s honest, it’s smart and it’s real. Let’s talk about what actually happens in our bedrooms, right?

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With featured guests like

Ian Kerner

Author, Sex Therapist

Jennifer Findlayson Fife

Marriage and Family Therapist

Dr. Robert Glover

Author, speaker

Emily Nagoski

Author

Lori Brotto

Canadian psychologist, Sex Therapist

Laurie Mintz

Sexuality psychologist

Vanessa Marin

Psychotherapist, Writer

Gary Thomas

Author, Speaker

Stephen Snyder

Author, MD

Recent Episodes

Your Brain On Sex | Dr Emily Nagoski #651

Your Brain On Sex | Dr Emily Nagoski #651

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Connection Codes | Dr Glenn and Phyllis Hill #649

Connection Codes | Dr Glenn and Phyllis Hill #649

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Our Articles

The Art Of Self-Soothing Towards A Better Marriage

The Art Of Self-Soothing Towards A Better Marriage

To become acquainted with oneself is a terrible shock. ~ Carl Jung Marriage, or any committed relationship, has the ability to bring excitement and passion into our lives. At the same time however, as the relationship progresses and more roadblocks and perpetual...

The Passionately Married Podcast Turns 12 This Week!!!

The Passionately Married Podcast Turns 12 This Week!!!

This week we celebrate another milestone. Our little podcast turns 12! In 2011 we hit the podcast airwaves with a straight-forward and honest look at marriage and sex. Now, 12 years later, even though our name has changed - our mission has not. We are still on a 100...

Don’t Go At It Alone

Don’t Go At It Alone

If you are a listener of the Passionately Married Podcast you know that Pam and I are open and transparent about the things we’ve struggled with in life. In fact, pretty much every product and resource we offer on the website has come from our own personal challenges....

Are you lazy busy?

Are you lazy busy?

There are times in my life (usually this happens for me in the middle of the night or at the beginning of a new season) when I need to ask myself some honest questions about life. Often these are big ones like: Who am I? What am I doing with my life? These are just 2...

Recovery is what makes a great marriage!

Recovery is what makes a great marriage!

Can you handle the tough conversations? There are many tough talks that happen in marriage. Being able to recover from them is the key to addressing them. You may not react well initially, or during the conversation. You may get defensive, attacking, or critical --...

Sex Seminar 2023: 31 ONLINE Sex Classes for  Couples

Sex Seminar 2023: 31 ONLINE Sex Classes for Couples

From the comfort & privacy of your own home, you can watch sex therapists & marriage experts teach sex lessons covering everything you ever wanted to know about married sex! From Learning About the Female Orgasm, to How Hormones Affect Sex Drive, to Rekindling...

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