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I’m Corey, this is my wife Pam.

Here to help couples spend their days fully alive.

We believe couples can be in control of their relationships, not the other way around. We can all remove the “ceiling” of our relationships. Let’s reach our potential, and then surpass it!

I empower people. Encourage them.
I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.

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We really love making this podcast together. It’s straight-forward, it’s honest, it’s smart and it’s real. Let’s talk about what actually happens in our bedrooms, right?

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Ian Kerner

Author, Sex Therapist

Jennifer Findlayson Fife

Marriage and Family Therapist

Dr. Robert Glover

Author, speaker

Emily Nagoski

Author

Lori Brotto

Canadian psychologist, Sex Therapist

Laurie Mintz

Sexuality psychologist

Vanessa Marin

Psychotherapist, Writer

Gary Thomas

Author, Speaker

Stephen Snyder

Author, MD

Recent Episodes

Busyness and Unhealed Trauma | John Eldredge #659

Busyness and Unhealed Trauma | John Eldredge #659

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Mercy Sex In Marriage #658

Mercy Sex In Marriage #658

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Our Articles

Navigating Intimacy: A Guide to Growth in Long-Term Marriages

Navigating Intimacy: A Guide to Growth in Long-Term Marriages

In our most recent podcast episode (The Search For Intimacy #657), my wife, Pam and I delved into a topic that strikes a chord with many long-term couples — the unveiling of uncomfortable truths within the relationship. Today, let's expand upon the themes discussed...

My Reads In 2023

My Reads In 2023

I have not always been a reader. In fact, for a majority of my life I'd be in the "I hate reading category." Grad school required that I developed the need for reading. This need has turned into a love now. And again, thanks to Kindle on my phone and Audible, I can...

Start the New Year with Two Offerings For Your Marriage

Start the New Year with Two Offerings For Your Marriage

Happy New Year! Today I’m going to tell you about how you can start the year off right on two levels -- For couples, come join us at the SMR Getaway June 13-15 2024.​ For men, join a Man of His Word Mastermind group that begins in a couple of weeks. If you’re one who...

My 3 Words for 2024

My 3 Words for 2024

Happy New Year to all of you sexy people! New year's often means people all over the world may make new year's resolutions. If you're  like me (and most everyone else), they don't work very well for daily/weekly execution. What I’ve found much more helpful is a...

Navigating Desire and Attraction in Long-Term Marriages

Navigating Desire and Attraction in Long-Term Marriages

Marriage is often an intricate dance of desire and attraction. In episode #656 of Sexy Marriage Radio, we dive into the complexities of maintaining attraction in long-term marriages. As spouses traverse the landscape of love over the years, they often encounter shifts...

Why it’s important to getaway together

Why it’s important to getaway together

This story has been shared before and it's worth sharing again for the 2024 SMR Getaway. Steve and Michelle, 43 and 41, have been married 19 years and are living the typical family life. They both work jobs they enjoy but at the end of the day they're just jobs - not...

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