Attraction is a funny thing.
Many people believe physical appearance is the driving force behind attractiveness. If you hold that belief, you’d be wrong.
While physical appearance plays a role, your thoughts and how you carry yourself are the dominant power behind attractiveness. You don’t have to be dressed in the latest trends or wear the right label to be attractive. You also don’t have to lose the pounds to attain your ideal body weight. Or spend enough time at the gym to get the right definition.
With the right mindset you can unveil your natural beauty.
A lot of people hide their true self by putting on false personas. When you do this, not only do you obstruct your true self, you create false relationships.
There’s no reason to hide your faults or pretend they don’t exist. Embrace your true qualities; no one expects you to be perfect (except, perhaps you).
Those who are true to themselves are inherently more attractive. Never be embarrassed of falling short. Being real means accepting who you are and loving yourself as a result. Only when you love yourself can you genuinely begin to love others. And as your self respect increases, so does your attractiveness – self respect is the best aphrodisiac there is, period.
Talk With Purpose
There’s something attractive about those who have a purpose with their words. Don’t simple talk for the sake of filler. When you talk, speak with authority.
“Better to keep your mouth closed and be thought a fool than to open it and remove all doubt.” ~ Abraham Lincoln
In an increasingly opinionated world, the skill of genuinely listening has become a lost art. When you talk, really talk – and when you listen, really listen. Suspend judgment and open your heart and mind to listen.
The person who really knows how to listen is magnetic.
When you laugh, you radiate an inner beauty. While it’s certainly possible to over do it, laughing is virtually always looked at in a positive light. Plus, a sense of humor is alluring. No one likes to be around a grouch.
Combined with laughing, smiling is one of the easiest ways to radiate attractiveness. When you smile, you connect with all those around. Did you know the most successful individuals are the one’s that smile most? It’s true.
Plus, a smile is contagious. Your smile will help others to smile as well.
Walk With Your Head Up
How do you walk? Do you walk with your head down? A simple shift in the way you walk will do wonders in how you are perceived in the public eye. Confidence goes a long way. Look up and observe the beauty of the world, and in turn you will begin to radiate it.
Look People in the Eye
The ability to look others in the eye displays a certain confidence. It also allows for a better connection with others. Practice making eye contact with those you’re around. Acknowledge them. Looking them in the eyes shows you care.
If you are like the majority of people, a great deal of your thoughts and conversations involves complaining. Complaining is like a rocking chair. At first it feels comfortable and you feel like you’re accomplishing something, but you don’t end up getting anywhere. Do everything in your power not to complain.
Plus, it’s a fundamental truth that those who complain attract more situations to complain about. Try this instead, embrace each and every moment as a blessing. Don’t expect to glow if you instead to choose to whine.
How can you expect to be attractive if you don’t feel like you are? Everyone of us overflows with natural beauty. When you feel attractive, you release attractiveness. However, there’s a fine line between confidence and cockiness. Always avoid the latter. When you sincerely believe you are an attractive individual, which by nature you are, those around you will think the same.
None of us like people who are closed off and unaccessible. Be open to create authentic relationships and watch the connections unfold. Far too often people feel as if they are too good for someone, but the reality is we are all part of human race. When you allow others to connect with you, you instantly become even more appealing. Be real, open and willing and watch as your authentic relationships manifest.
You have a choice. You can express the elegance you already possess as a human being or you can barely glimmer. You already have everything you need!
Let your light shine and others will gravitate towards it!